Should I buy this dress or not? I dunno what to do. I mean I like it, but I think it’s too short for me hmmm
Ok, so my Mother saw this woman on tv who is plus sized and she runs an entertainment show. So she said that this woman should lose weight. And I was like why?
And she said, because I would like her to do so, like 5 kg less, she would look so much better. Everybody is losing weight and she doesn’t, you should also lose weight. I was like ok, everybody is the master of their body, they decide what to do with their body.
She was like no, doctors say it’s not good, you could get diabetes and heart problems.
I’m so tired of this kind of thinking, even if she is my Mother. Everybody is entitled to do with their body whatever they please. People are healthy at any size. In my 22 years, I’ve never heard her say you look good like this, no, I should lose weight, then I will look even better.
She said it’s a matter of will, you can lose weight if you want, if you have the will to do so. I’m so tired of hearing this. When I was younger she made me diet and so on and now, I’m older and wiser. So ok, in her words, I do not have ambition, will, what have you. I am this way and I am beautiful this way.
Everybody is ok just the way they are. Don’t diet to show you have “will” to lose weight or just because the outside world’s telling you to do so.
Just be yourself!
This is the new dress I bought, but I’ve never went wit it somewhere, not that I have where to go, but anyway:)) This dress is an European size 46. I didn’t think it would fit me, but it did and I was pretty happy:)
I thought I should buy more dresses, more skirts, not only jeans and stuff. And I think I look pretty great in this one. I’ve finally come to the conclusion that even if I am fat, I can look good in dresses.
But, I have to admit that it’s been a long journey to where I am and even now, I do have days where I don’t like the way I look. It’s easier to say others are beautiful, but when it comes to you, it’s pretty hard at times.
Love yourself always!
Ok, so I went to C&A and I tried these dresses on. I didn’t buy any of them, but I think they look pretty ok on me.I’m thinking about buying the pink dress, but I dunno if it looks good on me or I’m just making myself believe that.
I’ve never had a dress like these ones, because I thought they wouldn’t fit me and they don’t look good on me.
I’ll have to think about it.
LOVE YOURSELF! YOU ARE WORTH IT!